When I was first diagnosed all the medical team/oncology told me it is palliative treatment only for mesothelioma as there is no cure. That is fine, whether it is invasive treatments or not, it is how we live our lives with this palliative care that matters.
I believe living in the moment is vital for LIVING WITH MESOTHELIOMA.
Don't stress about the big picture, let the universe take care of that! We have no control over that anyway, so why worry about it.